Only when you start living your life by your highest values, will you be able to make a difference in this world. In this podcast, I walk you through the 13 questions you need to ask yourself in order to determine your highest values.
Once you are done answering all the 13 questions go to the VALUE DETERMINATION TOOL developed by Dr. John Demartini.
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What you will learn in this podcast?
Why it's important to determine your highest values?
What are the 13 questions to find your core values?
What is the outcome of determining your core values?
20 replies to "How To Find Your Core Values In Life"
Live you Life based on your highest Values, Top things :- Love for technology, Spirituality and everything related to Business.
1. How do you fill your Space ?
2. How do you spend your time ?
3. What energises you the most ?
4. How do you spend your Money ?
5. Where are you organised and ordered most in your life ?
6. Where are you most reliable, Disciplined and Focused in ?
7. What do you inwardly think about most ?
8. Where do you visualise most ?
9. What do you internally talk about most ?
10. What are the top three things you talk about the most in Social Gathering ?
11.What inspires you the most ?
12. What is your most consistent long term goal?
13. What do you love to learn about most ?
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The more important a value is – the higher it will be on your hierarchy of values and the more discipline and order you will have associated with it. The less important a value is – the lower it will be on your hierarchy of values and the less discipline and more disorder you have associated with it.
What Are Values?
You Value What You Perceive Most Missing
– John Demartini
Your values arise from and are therefore determined by your conscious or unconscious voids (what you perceive as most missing). What you perceive as most missing (void) in your life therefore becomes what you perceive as most important (value). Your underlying private voids drive your overlying public .
I did my test
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13 Questions to get Core Values
Really help to understand the core Value .
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Most people are not aligning their business , lifestyle with their core values therefore there are so many problems in life , like premature aging , immunity decreases , depression , unhappy mindset , dis_satisfied n stressful life etc. DR. JOHN DE’MARTINI asks us theses 13 questions to determine the core values in our life .
Q 1 _what are top 3 things filling your physical space ?
Q 2 _How do you spend your time ?
Q 3 _ What energizes you the most ?
Q 4_ How do you spend your money ?
Q 5_ Where are you organized and ordered in life ?
Q 6_ Where are you most reliable , focussed and disciplined ?
Q 7 _ What do you inwardly think abt most ?
Q 8 _ What do you visualize and then realize the most ?
Q 9 What do you internally dialogue with yourself the most ?
Q 10 _ What do you talk abt the most in social settings ?
Q 11 _ What inspires you the most ?
Q 12 _ What is your most consistent long term goal ?
Q 13 _ What do you love to learn abt the most ?
Answering theses questions when we align our business, activities and decisions of life with our core values , then we can perform our best , also contribute to others’ lives in many significant ways !
How to find your core values in life
Why is it important to determine your values they end up having different challenge
1) How do you fill up your space? What are the top three things that fill up your physical space? Put Categories of what it is?
a) Book- Spiritual, esoteric, Civilization, self-healing, alternative science
b) Gadgets- Headphone, ring light, webcam, Tripod stand
c) Musical Instrument- D# Flute
2) How do you spend your time?List down top three
a) Practising various mouth exercise for public speaking
b) Finishing of online course
c) Daily affirmation
3) What energises you the most?
a) Playing flute
b) Studying etymology
c) Pattern recognition
4) Where do you spend your money?
a) Education – Speaker Prenuer ( L1 L2 L3), Author Prenuer(L1), Internet Lifestyle Hub(L1,L2,L3), Inner Child Healing course(Based on micro-niche)
b) Internet
c) Natural supplements
5)Where are you more organized in your life?
a) Keeping my books in order
b) Keeping my room clean
c) Listening to daily affirmation
6)Where are you more reliable, disciplined and focused in?
a) Pattern Recognition
b) Studying Etymology
c) Studying Human anatomy and Human behaviour
7) What do you inwardly think about most?
a) Healing the inner-child wound
b) Different healing modalities to heal the wound
c) To be of service to the ones who gone through the same
8) What do you visualise and then realize the most?
a) Healing my inner-child wound
b) Healing others inner child wound
c) To reach one’s highest potential and become a master
9)What do you internal dialogue the most?
a) To help other reach their highest potential by healing their inner-child wound
b) Building a community of wounded healers
c) Victim free society
10) What do you talk about most in social setting?
a) Astro theology
b) Common law
c) Utopian society
11) What inspires you most?
a) Upgrading myself spiritual
b) Learning new things
c) Breaking self-limiting belief
12) What are you consistent long term goal?
a) Build a community of light workers
b) Learning different healing modalities
c) Learn more about light language
13) what do you love to learn about most?
a) Different energy healing
b) Flute
c) Human anatomy
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Thanks Sir for sharing your precious knowledge with us-
My Learnings From This Podcast-
Why It Is Important To Determine Your Highest Values?
People who are not living every single day align with your values they end up having different challenges. Align yourself with highest values.
13 Questions To Find Your Core Value-
1️⃣ How do you fill yourself? What are the top 3 that fill up your physical space and what are they represents?
2️⃣ How do you spend your time? What are the top 3 chunks or bucket you are spending maximum time?
3️⃣ What energizes you? Think about the top 3 things that energizes you the most?
4️⃣ How do you spend your money? What are the top 3 categories you spend most of your money?
5️⃣ What are you organized or ordered most in your life?
6️⃣ What are you most reliable, discipline and focued?
7️⃣ What you mostly think about most of the day?
8️⃣ What you visualize and realize the most?
9️⃣ What do you internally dialouge with yourself about most?
🔟 What you talk about most in social gathering?
1️⃣1️⃣ What inspires you the most?
1️⃣2️⃣ What is your most consistent long-term goals?
1️⃣3️⃣ What you love to learn about most.
Values are like lighthouses, they are signals giving us direction, meaning and purpose.
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JohnDimartini talks about Value Determination Test.
Why is it important to determine our values?
– To avoid challenges in life.
– Pressures in life keep detoriating us.
– Hence values are important to align us to the right way of life.
The 13 questions that we need to answer to understand our minds to bridge our gaps.
#1 : What are the top 3 things that fill up our physical space? What do they represent?
#2 : How do you spend your time? What are the 3 chunks into which you spend your maximum time?
#3 : What energizes you the most?
#4 : How do you spend your money? What are the top 3 categories into which you spend your money?
#5 : Where (in which areas or categories) are you organized and ordered in your life?
#6 : Where (in which areas or categories) are you most reliable, disciplined and focused in?
#7 : What you inwardly think about the most? What is mostly running in your mind?
#8 : What do you visualize and then realize the most? (as to where we would like our life to be the most?)
#9 : What do you internally dialogue about the most?
#10 : What do you like to talk about the most in social gatherings?
#11 : What are the top 3 things that inspires you the most?
#12. What are your most consistent long term goals?
#13 : What do you love to learn about, the most-top topics?
Now go to this link https://drdemartini.com/values/?tk=3604 and key in our answers and we will know where we are.
Incase our current values are not aligned with our current lifestyle, we will have to work in the areas to re-align ourselves.
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The topic today is your core values :
#Value determination
Those people do not align with values and it will deteriorate their life.There are 13 questions to this .
#Space at Home:
1 How do you feel about your space _ Dell laptop ,LED TV and a lot of electronics gadgets.
2 Spiritual category_ Place for worship where our religious god is residing with us .
3 Items for business_ Camera ,mobile and digital equipment for business purposes .
#Spend your Time:
Study_To develop my skill for betterment of the future.
Contant_working on content creation.
engagement _Keeping engage myself doing workout and spending time with family
#What energize most
the plan vs achievement
Go getter .
listening to music while self driving .
# How you spend money
1 . Family needs .
2. For Business.
3. For skill development .
# Where you organized:
Self discipline
Organized workplace .
Proper financial planning.
#Where are you most reliable ,disciplined and focused
Reliable to my commitment.
Disciplined towards my daily plan.
Focused towards my goal.
# What alway runs in your mind.
Financial stability .
My son’s education.
Prosperity at my home .
# What do you visualize most
The goal to be successful .
Financial freedom.
Name and fame
# What you dialogue
To help people to have financial freedom.
To learn throughout life and grow.
Build a great community .
# what you talk in social gathering
Technology
Spiritual
Business
#What inspires most
Parenting my son
Educating people
Learning new things
#What is your most consistent long term goal
Financial stability
Communities
Coaching
# What do you learn to love about more
Learning new technique
Digital marketing
Sales and marketing tools
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13 question ….
Those people who are not living align with core value …they face struggle…
1⃣How do you fill your home ???
Love for book …
2⃣where you spend your time ….???
3⃣ what energizes you most ???
4⃣where you spend your money… ?????
5⃣ where are you organized most ???
6⃣ where are you most reliable , focused and disciplined ????
7⃣what do inwardly think about most ???
8⃣ what do you visualize and then realize the most ???
9⃣ what do you internally dialogue with yourself the most ???
🔟 what do you talk about most on social setting ???
1⃣1⃣ what inspire you the most ???
1⃣2⃣ what is your most consistent long term goal????
1⃣3⃣what do you love to learn about most ????
Value determination test ….
The key is you got to align your action ..your planning …even your goals with core values … Then only we can perform our best …..
Thank you sidz
DR. JOHN DE’MARTINI asks us theses 13 questions to determine the core values in our life .
Q 1 what are top 3 things filling your physical space ?
Q 2 How do you spend your time ?
Q 3 What energizes you the most ?
Q 4 How do you spend your money ?
Q 5 Where are you organized and ordered in life ?
Q 6 Where are you most reliable , focused and disciplined ?
Q 7 What do you inwardly think abt most ?
Q 8 What do you visualize and then realize the most ?
Q 9 What do you internally dialogue with yourself the most ?
Q 10 What do you talk abt the most in social settings ?
Q 11 What inspires you the most ?
Q 12 What is your most consistent long term goal ?
Q 13 What do you love to learn abt the most ?
Answering theses questions when we align our business, activities and decisions of life with our core values , then we can perform our best.
This was truly value add!
Thank you,
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Core Values
Not able to achieve anything because not aligned with the highest values.
If you start living your life based on your highest value you can contribute to society.
Why is it important to determine your highest value?
13th Question to ask to determine your value.
Q 01. How do I fill My space?
A 01. TV, Holy Book, and other books.
Q 02. How do I spend My time?
A 02. I am Watching videos of my mentors, Listening to Strangest Secret & watching videos on Mobile.
Q 03. What Energies me the most?
A 03. Life long learner, want to change my current situation & I want to help others to change their life.
Q 04. How do I spend money?
A 04. I spend money on buying courses for my mentors, Charity, and Household items.
Q 05. Where am I Most organized?
A 05. Not yet organized. I am practicing being organized.
Q 06. Where am I most reliable, disciplined, and focused.
A 06. Reliable in Keeping Secrets, Disciplined in attending all your sessions & Focused to learn and grow.
Q 07. What do I inwardly think about most?
A 07. To Learn, To change my current situation, To prove i m worthy.
Q 08. What do I visualize and realize most?
A 08. Visualizing of taking sessions like You, start trying to think & act like you & Give charity like you.
Q 09. What is my internal dialogue with Myself?
A 09. I want to change myself, I want to help others to change & I am getting the Bharat ratan award.
Q 10. What do I talk about in social gatherings?
A 10. Transformation, Learning & Giving back to society.
Q 11. What inspires Me most?
A 11. Our Holy book inspires me, Your sessions, and my other mentor’s sessions.
Q 12. What is My most consistent long-term goal?
A 12. To learn the meaning of my holy book, To change my life and I want to give BMW 7 Series car as a gift to my mother. 🙂
Q 13. What do I love to learn about most?
A 13. Learn about Transformation, how to be from a negative state to a positive state & How to be an Implementor.
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🙏❤️ Hey Siddharth Sir , Thanks for making this wonderful podcast , I actually learnt great things and realized my core values ..
😃 This Is Adithyaram , Studying 12th Class ..
So here are my thoughts / learnings regarding this podcast :
👉 As we see the people in present days n age are unable to achieve what they want (goals) instead they get into problems like career , health , wealth etc .. But why this is happening ? One of the reason is they actually unacquainted of their core values or prior values … They are unaware of aligning the values which will contribute the society ..
⭐️ So what if we start living a life based on higher values ? Yeah !! Definitely we will get tickled or realize by those values so that we go in a flow and that flow is what makes us contribute to the world with highest capacity …
🤔 The another thing which we need to think about is “ Why is it important to determine your values “ ?
Most of the people end up with challenges and difficulties because they
are not aligned with their values .. Some of the people doing their jobs
Just to complete or just to do it . They will be interested in one niche but
they end up doing the job in another niche because of society , family
Pressures , But the thing we have to realize here is those pressure will
have a impact your mental state sometimes physically too ..
So here the thing is to realize what are your higher values and start
according to that , And make it happen what you want achieve in
your life …
👍 So to get deeper idea into this concept of *Values*
Here are the 13 powerful questions which you have to ask yourself for finding your core values or higher values .. ( These are questions given by DR.JOHN DEMARTINI )
So Here We Go
1️⃣ How do you fill your space ?
👉 Technology (Gadgets) , Books , Outdoor Gaming Kits (Cricket , Badminton)
2️⃣ How do you spend your time ?
👉 Studying for my boards , Watching Informative content on YouTube , Connecting with nature ..
3️⃣ What Energizes you most ?
👉 When I done with my work (related to studies) , By watching some self realization videos of my mentors and yeah talking with my mentor ..
4️⃣ How do you spend your money ?
👉 Mostly I am a moderate guy when it comes to money but for personal development , And for food 😃 i spend my money . I think investing my money is the right word 😃 …
5️⃣ In which circumstances of your life , you will be organized or ordered ?
👉 When It comes to learning new things , when iam completing any self help courses , In my education
6️⃣ Where are you most reliable , disciplined and focused ?
👉 Actually iam a beginner , Learning new things , Start building my business
7️⃣ What are you inwardly think about most ?
👉 Setting up a good business , A good contributor to society , My Family
8️⃣ What are the things that you visualize most ?
👉 I visualize more of Achieving success in my career , Built a successful automotive business , Having a good relationship with my family and friends
9️⃣ What you internally dialogue yourself most ?
👉 Iam one of the best knowledge giver when it comes to self development niche , I inspire people with my content and make them achieve their goals , I will travel to the most beautiful places in India .
🔟 What do you think about most in Social Settings?
👉 iam more of a guy who attend less in social gatherings but if I attend I will be talking about self development , healthy relationship , creative ideas in business
1️⃣1️⃣ What Inspires You the most ?
👉 Talking With My Mentors , My Goals , My Healthy Visualization
1️⃣2️⃣ What Is Your Most Consistent Long term goal ?
👉 Having a lifestyle of freedom , financial freedom , Turning to Self development coach .
1️⃣3️⃣ What do you love to learn most ?
👉 Personal Development Topics (Psychology) , Mysteries in the world , Story wring , spirituality .
👍 Yupp , These are the questions which will help you to find your prior values ..
🤝 Well after completing this questionnaire I actually completed doing a “Values finding sheet” given by Dr.John demartini sir . The results came out quite interesting for me ..
🙌 So I divided my values and life into Technology , Family , Personal , Finance .
– Here are my Percentage for each of them
👉 Technology – 22%
👉 Family – 30%
👉 Personal – 33%
👉 Finance – 15%
Lastly , Thank you so much siddharth sir , By this podcast I got to know really amazing things about my life and my values 🙏🙏 ..
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Waiting for your next podcast sir😃👍 .
My TOP 3 Learnings:
1: Self Assessment by Dr. De Martini is one process which gives you the current core value of your persona, it helps you to get the right direction to move forward.
2: Core values are the mirror reflection of your inner-self.
3. Discovering core values can guide to make right decisions. It makes you more confident in respect of your true-self.
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If people do not align with the highest values, they struggle in their life. They aren’t able to determine their qualities and put their time and effort to get nothing.
Understanding our skills and capabilities and sharpen them is a key to get the success
1. How do you fill your space? Many things in your home. What are the top three things that fill your physical space?
I. From day started I love to do prayer and recite Quran. (Spiritual)
II. I love to cook some healthy and tasty food to keep me in good health (Health)
III. I love to work on a laptop for my professional work. This is how I spend my day. (Technology)
2. How do you spend your time? What are the three chunks or buckets in which you are spending maximum time?
I. Spend in Laptop for duty hours and coaching business
II. Kitchen for cooking and other activities.
III. Spend time with my family.
3. What energizes you the most?
I. Working for my coaching business gives me a positive energy
II. Doing prayer and reciting Quran
III. Talking to my children and my mother.
4. How do you spend your money?
I. I spend money on my family’s daily needs.
II. I spend money on my new start business for marketing and tools.
III. I spend money on my children’s education and daily needs.
5. Where are you ordered and organized the most?
I. I manage my time to multitask efficiently with discipline.
II. I always keep things organized as a way to minimize the time for work daily basis.
III. I balance the time for work, meetings, yoga, cooking, and children.
6. Where you are more reliable, disciplined, and focused?
I. I am more disciplined in time management.
II. I am more reliable in taking quick decisions at difficult times and getting good results.
III. I am focused on my long-term vision and mission for my personal and business activities.
7. What do you inwardly think about most?
I. What I think about the most is how to generate money for my business through marketing.
II. How to give happy moments to my children’s life.
III. How to keep me healthy to work efficiently.
8. What do you visualize and realize the most?
I. I visualize most being a co-founder of a unique testing lab and now I realize I am getting much respect in doing things.
II. I visualize being a successful coach and consultant and working on completing this task for the coaching business.
III. I realized that I learn many marketing tools and feel independent in many marketing work.
9. What’s your internal dialogue most?
I. I want to help people by changing their minds about drinking healthy water.
II. I want to increase awareness to reduce water pollution and save our environment.
III. I want to run a water testing camp to help more people to give them better drinking water quality.
10. What are the three things you like to talk about most?
I. I like to talk about water problems and solutions.
II. I like to talk about how to keep our mind and body healthy through yoga and a good diet.
III. I like to share business ideas to get successful.
11. What inspires you most?
I. I am inspired by my spiritual leader and how he lives a spiritual life and what I learned from him to make your soul peaceful and obliged God and parents for every single day what we are now.
II. I am inspired by Siddharth as my mentor to do a coaching business.
III. I am inspired by my brother and how he is kind and helpful to needy people.
12.What is your most consistent long-term goal?
I. To earn money with a freedom lifestyle.
II. To visit spiritual places when I have more money
III. To live my life with peace and happiness.
13. What do you learn about the most?
I. Love to explore more about water problems and solutions.
II. I Love to learn more about Islamic history
III. Love to learn the tools.
Thanks a lot, Sidz
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Key Take away for me and Fabulous insight of information and knowledge sharing from Sidz always.
1. How do you fill your Space ?
Artwork, technology ,software’s
2. How do you spend your time ?
I am attending sessions by my mentors, Listening artwork.
3. What energizes you the most ?
Keeping learning and one step enhance your skills, completion of tasks with new learning
4. How do you spend your Money ?
software’s, gadgets ,courses. working on plan to organize better and spend less
5. Where are you organized and ordered most in your life ?
At work. Need to realign at home, self
6. Where are you most reliable, Disciplined and Focused in ?
one can depend on me, disciplined at certain principles, and focused towards community service ahead
7. What do you inwardly think about most ?
serve the young minded current generation to serve the future . be part of service.
8. Where do you visualize most ?
I visualize in serving better with better knowledge by learning from mindful people. the journey I am already part of.
9. What do you internally talk/dialogue about most ?
to be get better version of “I” every moment I live in. work on my little voice ‘good, bad, ugly”
to be resourceful and serve community
10. What are the top three things you talk about the most in Social Gathering ?
my participation social gathering in very minimal. I am working on certain areas of self development, health, relationship and learning
11.What inspires you the most ?
Talking to my new set of mindful people, time best served and utilized, being more accountable
12. What is your most consistent long term goal?
Health, financial freedom, learning and coaching
13. What do you love to learn about most ?
New technology, being resourceful to serve others, learning and coaching
Thank you for sharing. I did this excercise.
I am in align with my values. However I have to improve in some areas.
Here is my score.
1 28% Business
2 21% Spirituality
3 18% Music
4 10% Technology
5 10% Social
6 10% Family
7 3% Nature
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Lucky 13 questions for finding Core Values in life :
1. What are the top 3 things fill my space?
2. How do spend your time?
3. What energizes me most?
4. How do I spend my money?
5. Where am I most organized?
6. Where am I most reliable, disciplined and focused?
7. What do I inwardly think about most?
8. What do I visualize and then realize most?
9. What do my internal dialogues?
10. What do I love to talk about most?
11. What inspire me most?
12. What is my most consistent long term goals?
13. What do I love to learn about most?
– I have found all answers are aligned in case of mine and all are aligned with my goals. Thank you Sidz for making me understand my core values. It gives me confidence that I am on right track. Thank you so much.
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In this podcast – learn about finding core values in our life
Determining your values is practically useful in your daily reality as what you perceive to be ‘missing’ will become what seems to be ‘important’.
So this is why our private voids give rise to your public values.
The more important a value is – the higher it will be on your hierarchy of values and the more discipline and order you will have associated with it.
The less important a value is – the lower it will be on your hierarchy of values and the less discipline and more disorder you have associated with it.
These 13 Questions help you to find core values :
1) how do you feel about your space?
what you feel about technology, spirituality, business
2) how do you spend your time?
top 3 chunks to spend your maximum time
3) what energizes you most?
list the top 3 things that energize you most
4) how do you spend your money?
list top 3 most spend money
5) where are your top 3 areas you well organized
6) Where are you most reliable, disciplined, and focused?
7) What are you inwardly think about most?
8) What are the things that you visualize most?
9) What do you internally dialogue with yourself most?
10) What do you think about most in Social Settings?
11) What Inspires You the most?
12) What Is Your Most Consistent Long term goal?
13) What do you love to learn most?
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Answer to all these 13 questions with your TOP 3
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Q1. What are the top things that fill your space?
Q2. How do you spend your time?
Q3. What are the things that energise you the most?
Q4. How do you spend your money?
Q5. Where are you organised & ordered most in your life?
Q6. Where are you most reliable, disciplined & focussed?
Q7. What do you inwardly think about most?
Q8. What are the things that you visualise the most?
Q9. What do you internally dialogue with yourself?
Q10. What do you talk about most in social gatherings?
Q11. What inspires you the most?
Q12. What is your most consistent long-term goal?
Q13. What do you love to learn about most?
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I did my Value determination test as per the guidance. Here’s my result.
I am glad that i am able to find out. Feel to blessed to do this exercise. Thanks to sidz and Dr D Martini.
15% is learning
15% Contribution
13% Spirituality
10% freedom
10% Health
Most people today are not able to achieve their goals or they get into health problems, relationship problems, career problems, wealth problems, and all kinds of challenges come because they are not aligned with their highest values.
More power to you, Anshuman.